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                     A strong woman doesn't need a man to make her happy but a wise woman will accept a man's love to grow.

          To the guy wga, the one who tried but didn't have the courage to pursue, to the guy who will be willing to take the risk, this one's for you. 

            A lot of people who are wondering/asking  "Bakit wala ka pa bf?!" Honestly, I don't know anymore how to answer that in the simplest way I could explain it. And to tell you frankly, it pissed me off that you keep on repeating the same comments as if being single is a disease. Okay let me get straight to my point, maybe because after 5 long years I already gained the state of my so called "comfort zone"---no complications, no heartaches, as they say "steady lang." And amidst of being alone, I found the true essence of being independent, I found myself being a strong woman I didn't know will be possible. And sometimes, I feel like I'm scared now to enter a relationship, to take the risk of being hurt again. Scary! Yes you can hear me now admitting "I'm scared of falling in love again" Gaga kasi ako magmahal.🙊😅

           To the guy wga, I think I scared you and I am sorry for that. Sorry for the "strong image" I showed you, for getting too excited about the dating status (would you blame me for that?!) READ THIS! Rule no. 1 WAG PAASA AT WAG PA FALL. It's okay, that means we're just not meant to be and you can't handle a strong personality. Too weak! hahaha! But thank you for the life's lessons. 

           Last month, I had a good conversation with a guy; we talked about love, relationships, break up. In the long conversation we had, what struck me the most was the time he told me that "after my investment of feelings, now I'm back in the game." That's the hardest part I guess; starting all over again and the scar  left in you gives the inability to trust again.

           I always say, "I'd rather be single than to be with someone who will make my life miserable. I know cliche as it may seems, "Singlehood is the best time you could ever have!" You get to travel, freedom you want, loving God deeply, loving yourself the most, more time with family and friends. Savour it my dear single friends. It's only once in a lifetime! 😃🤗 

Believe me or not, it's up to you. I am not looking for someone. But I do hope one day, I could find that someone who has the strong guts to conquer my world, remove my anxities and fears, and would make me feel like I'm the most beautiful girl in his world. Am I asking for too much?! I guess not. Good luck to you whoever you are. 

           Sabi nga ni Pia, "People who have been single for too long are the hardest to love. They have become so used to being single, independent and self sufficient that it takes something extraordinary to convince them that they need you in their life."